Be attached to the outcome, not the process. Fall in love with the process. That is what they say all great people have in common. They just love to put in the work, day in and day out. Is there a specific way to be a great loving parent leader? Is there one way of doing things that is going to ensure success for you as a parent? If you have been a parent for more than 10 minutes, you know the answer is no. Parentship or being a parent leader is not an easy task. Just because something works for the Smiths down the street does not mean that is how it has to be done. Every family is Read more…

Your behavior is contagious. Do you want your family to catch yours? If there is anything we have learned in our time with the Corona Virus outbreak, some things are contagious. One of those things is your behavior as a parent. We learn almost everything from those we are around the most in those early years of our life. The same is true later in life as our children are growing.  Many of the behaviors we have now in our families stem from things we do without even knowing it as leaders in our family. The funny thing is most of these things are behaviors we learned from our parents. Many of them they don’t even know they taught us. Read more…

You can’t be a great leader unless you are passionate about the mission. Great leaders have a passion for what they do. They understand where they are going and are all bought into lead, follow, and work to get everyone they can to the family’s mission. The funny thing about a family leader’s passion is this drive can be one of the easiest things to have and the hardest, depending on the day. It is so easy to have that passion when you can see the progress of yourself and, more importantly, those in your family you support. There is just something special seeing those you love to have those moments where they reach out and touch their potential. Where Read more…

Hope is never a plan, but it can be a direction. Hope is a great thing that can give us the motivation to carry on in difficult situations. It provides a light at the end of a long tunnel of conditions we feel we might not be able to raise above. It is something we all need in our lives to keep taking steps forward to what we see in the future. Where it can get us into trouble is when we rely too heavily on hope. I had a mentor who would always tell me that hope is never a plan. It can be a lot of things, but it should never be our plan. Where we just sit Read more…

Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself. – Leo Tolstoy. As a leader in your family, if you see something you want to change, you need to start with the person in the mirror first. If you feel something is off that needs adjustment, then we need to look at the environment we have created. Every behavior we see in our families, good or bad, reflects the culture we have in our families. Creating culture is complex and but it is always within our control. The leadership teacher John Maxwell talks about leadership in one of his concepts, the law of the lid. This law states that an organization or group can only rise Read more…