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Leadership starts in the home

Parent Manager vs Leader

     One of my favorite authors is leadership expert John Maxwell.  One of the things he teaches that has always stuck with me is that everything rises and falls based off of leadership.  Behind every strong organization or team is a strong leader who is there driving and serving those members of the organization.  The family is the same way in the need for leadership.  Have you ever thought of your role in your family as being the leader of the family.  Some families have partnership leaders some have a sole leader but any strong organization needs someone who is guiding the group through the ups and downs they encounter.      There is an often debated skill of a manager Read more…


A Family Culture Like Google

  For years now we have heard how great a company Google is and if you ask their employees they will be the first to tell you how great it is to be a part of that team.  With good reason, they have found themselves tops on the list of Glassdoors rankings of “50 Best Places to Work.”  As you look over the list it is full of companies who have found incredible success in their market.  One of the main contributors to this success is the culture that each one of these groups creates for their employees.   There have been many studies and much written about corporate culture but it can simply be defined as the beliefs and Read more…


Connection, Growth, and Something New

Tribes need leadership.  Sometimes one person leads, sometimes more.  People want connection and growth and something new.   I am a big fan of Seth Godin and I am a big fan of short to the point books.  So his book Tribes was right up my ally.  To the point but with a big impact.  Godin uses the line above to talk about leadership and how there are “tribes” or groups of people that need leadership. There is a need for leadership in our families.  As we have discussed before we are all in a leadership role as parents.  Our family needs leadership!  I believe that our families need a leader more than they need us to be their friend or Read more…


No More Tolerating Today

A national day of gratitude.  This Thanksgiving I am sure I fall into the category that most of us do where we consider ourselves blessed.  When all is said and done today is a day like any other day.  The difference is we set aside time to look for the things we have and not the have nots. So many times in our lives we are looking toward tomorrow, next year, or 10 years from now.  While we need to have a vision of where we want to be we can’t get lost in the destination and forget the journey.  We get caught up in everything we are trying to get done and it makes us simply tolerate today.  We only Read more…


Your Family Is More About Where You Are Born

Who do you call family?  If you are talking to most people it will consist of mom, dad, brothers, sisters, aunts, uncles, or some combination of these relatives.  I would say the same thing.  For the most part, our family is due to the relationships with the people of the family we are born into. As I have been studying families and organizations I have come to the realization that family has less to do with who you are born to and more to do with the relationships you have.  I believe that people can become family with someone they have never met as they get to know that person. There are two things that I believe tie us together as a Read more…