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Your Seat At The Table Of Success

The world has the habit of making room for the man whose words and actions show that he knows where he is going.  – Napoleon Hill When I was a kid we lived in a house that had a room in it that we used once a week.  That room was the dining room.  The way the house was set up you had t walk through this room every day to get to the kitchen or the living room but the room was only used on Sundays.  We would use this room for Sunday dinner each week without fail. This room was a small room that had a round table in the middle with four chairs around it.  The funning Read more…


Leading the Family Choir

Have you ever heard the expression, you could not carry a tune in a bucket.  Well, I am the guy that does not even have a bucket for that tune.  I was not blessed with a singing voice and that is why I have always had an appreciation for those who can sing.  Recently I had a chance to attend a choir concert at our local high school where my niece performed.  We were lucky enough to be in the audience as each grade had the chance to showcase what they had been working on this year.  We heard some talented groups perform some great songs. Don’t worry, I won’t sing them for you.  One of the things that stood Read more…


4 Ways To Improve Leadership For Your Family Today

Recently I was reading an article that said that 90% of people lack natural leadership skills.  Does that mean we are lost as parent leaders? Only 10% of us were born to be good parent leaders.  I had to read this statistic twice to let it sink in. Because to me, it does not mean that 90% of us don’t have a chance.  It just means that 90% of us need to work on being good leaders. The dirty little secret is no matter who you are we all need to work on our leadership skills. Leadership is the most important skill that anyone can learn.  No matter where you are in life when you get intentional about your leadership Read more…


Banana Split Families

Banana Split Family

A perfect family is not one that does not have any issues they are working on or trying to get better.  It is a family that works with what they have and creates a culture where all involved feel loved.   I started this site thanks to banana splits.  Seems like a strange reason to start something around leadership and parenting but go with me on this.  I like dessert. In my mind what is the point of having a meal if it is not the reason to get through it to have dessert?     Think of what your favorite banana split would have.  How would you make it? Would you have vanilla ice cream or maybe you are someone Read more…


Why You Need To Give Up Some Control In Your Family

You can have control or you can have growth, but you can’t have both.-@CraigRoeschel Have you ever had an argument with yourself?  Where you are the only person in the room and there are two voices in your head battling it out.  This is what happened to me when I heard the quote from Craig. I love to have control.  I think it is because if something goes wrong I want to be the one to blame.  That way I don’t have to take fault in anyone else. This is what the argument was all about.  I didn’t even want to give up control of my thoughts on growth.   The good news about having an argument with yourself is that Read more…