Being a parent is the purest form of leadership. This applies to servant leadership as well. Servant leadership is when you look to serve the people you lead in any way possible. This does not mean that you wait on them hand and foot. It means that you look to serve your people in ways to make them better. This is why the most important question you can ask as a parent leader is all about them and puts you in a position to serve. This important question is “How can I help?” These might be the four most important words we can use with those we love. Our job a servant leaders in our family is to bet there Read more…
One of my favorite authors is leadership expert John Maxwell. One of the things he teaches that has always stuck with me is that everything rises and falls based off of leadership. Behind every strong organization or team is a strong leader who is there driving and serving those members of the organization. The family is the same way in the need for leadership. Have you ever thought of your role in your family as being the leader of the family. Some families have partnership leaders some have a sole leader but any strong organization needs someone who is guiding the group through the ups and downs they encounter. There is an often debated skill of a manager Read more…
Tribes need leadership. Sometimes one person leads, sometimes more. People want connection and growth and something new. I am a big fan of Seth Godin and I am a big fan of short to the point books. So his book Tribes was right up my ally. To the point but with a big impact. Godin uses the line above to talk about leadership and how there are “tribes” or groups of people that need leadership. There is a need for leadership in our families. As we have discussed before we are all in a leadership role as parents. Our family needs leadership! I believe that our families need a leader more than they need us to be their friend or Read more…
Right now our family is in the middle of a process where we are trying to sell our house. If any of you have been through this before you know that you live in constant fear of two things. The first is you are going to get a call where you find out that someone is coming over to your house in 10 min to take a look. The second is your kids will actually be kids and get their toys out and get the house dirty. It has been a real eye opener for us because there are times where we don’t feel like we live in our house but we are on display in our house. If there Read more…
When our son was born our world was a whirlwind of new experiences. Not only were we first-time parents but he spent the first 3 weeks of his in the NICU (neonatal intensive care unit). During this time we spent a lot of time at his bedside and only left for a couple hours of sleep or when they would kick us out for nurse shift changes. As we worked with him to meet the milestones of progress he needed to be able to leave and go home with us for the first time there were many things we learned. As he progressed one of the “tests” they would put parents through who had children who were going home Read more…