How many times have you caught yourself saying, “I’ll be happy when…”? Maybe it’s when you finally get that promotion, finish paying off the mortgage, or lose those extra pounds. We’ve all been there—chasing happiness as if it’s a finish line we’ll eventually cross. But what if we’ve been looking at happiness all wrong? What if the secret isn’t in reaching the destination but in embracing the journey? Why We Need to Stop Saying “I Will Be Happy When…” Living in the mindset of “I’ll be happy when…” creates a constant cycle of dissatisfaction. It keeps us from appreciating what we have right now and blinds us to the beauty of the everyday. Life isn’t made up of grand milestones—it’s Read more…
Parenting today feels like running an endless marathon. Between school drop-offs, work meetings, and extracurricular activities, it’s easy to fall into the trap of believing that doing more means being a better parent. But what if the secret to successful parenting wasn’t about doing everything, but about trying less in parenting? Trying to juggle it all often leaves us stressed, distracted, and disconnected. We aim to create the best possible life for our children, but in striving for perfection, we sometimes miss the moments that matter most. Why Doing It All Doesn’t WorkThe constant push to do everything as a parent can be overwhelming. Overloaded schedules can lead to burnout—not just for parents, but for kids, too. Studies show that Read more…
“Perfection is not attainable, but if we chase perfection we can catch excellence.” – Vince Lombardi Nick Saban is one of the most successful college football coaches of all time. In his 30 years as a head coach, he won 7 National Titles, including 6 at the University of Alabama. He recently decided to retire, and there has been a lot written about what he did that brought him this success. One of his key principles was not to focus on the outcome of the game. The focus should be on the current task at hand and our quest to be as perfect as we can on those individual tasks.This is summed up by his philosophy of perfecting every play. Read more…
“Most humans are never fully present in the now because unconsciously, they believe that the next moment must be more important than this one. But then you miss your whole life, which is never not now.” – Eckhart Tolle I heard a story one time about Jack Welch. Welch was a very successful COE at the General Electric company and widely regarded as one of the greatest leaders in corporate America. For years he led one of the most successful companies in the world. The story goes that Welch had a heart attack. All the years of stress and long working hours caught up with him. As most of us would after a life-changing event like a near-death experience, it Read more…